And over here to your right, ladies and gentlement, we have the quintessential dysfunctional family, with the requisite alcoholic father who drinks up all the family money, and steals from his kids to buy more alcohol. Seems like a common theme, doesn’t it.
This is a memoir, sad, engaging, and full of questions like why? why? and WTF? The two parents are basically hippie types, they live off the land, meaning they don’t pay their rent and are always moving, sometimes living in camping style out in the desert. Mom has a teaching certificate which doesn’t do much good as she doesn’t like to work, preferring to stay home and paint. Dad works sporadically, that is until he gets fired, usually for anger management issues. Well, that and drunkeness.
The four children are left to raise themselves, and the book is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit, but also spotlights that not everyone has the same amount of resilience in their bucket.
After living in horrifying poverty in Appalachia, where the kids ate by foraging in trash cans and being fed by neighbors, the kids manage to escape, one by one, to go to college. All of the kids became successful, while the parents never rose above their addiction and poverty, and never really wanted to. One day in Manhattan, the author came across her parents rummaging in the trash on the street. All efforts on the part of the kids to help them were in vain. The parents wanted no help, and preferred their homeless lifestyle. Eventually, they ended up as squatters in an abandoned building, where they found a community of other squatters, and lived there for years. The youngest sister developed mental problems, and spent a year in a psychiatric institution after trying to stab her mother with a knife. On her release, she disappeared into California.
It was a truly compelling story, one you couldn’t put down, something like watching a train wreck. Loved the book.
The author was a former gossip columnist for MSNBC.com . This memoir was made into a movie, with a bunch of famous actors. It is supposed to be released in August, this year.